VISIBILITY IS ABOUT SO MUCH MORE THAN JUST YOUR “MARKETING” OR MAKING YOUR MESSAGE HEARD…
For me, visibility is about full self expression.
It’s about being the version of you that you came here to be.
It’s about making the life you want to live NON NEGOTIABLE instead of living the way you think other people expect you to live.
It’s about choosing to be self-ruling, self-governing… sovereign.
I believe that visibiity is about making the choices that YOU know in your heart are right for YOU… even in the face of all the inevitable raised eyebrows, side-eye and straight up judgement that happens when you are the kind of woman who walks her OWN path and lives life in her own lane!
When you’re holding back – people can FEEL IT and they can interpret it in ALL KINDS OF WAYS!
I’ve spent nearly two decades helping people recognise their power, rediscover their authentic voice and move beyond the fear of being seen so they can fully embrace, embody and express their TRUE selves in their relationships, their businesses and ALL other areas of life.
My journey began working with Brit Award winning vocalists, tv personalities and west end performers as a voice coach and realising that I worked just as much with the inner voice as I did with the one they were presenting to the world.
These days I work with wild at heart, non mainstream female biz owners who empower other women (or who want to) but who often find themselves being thrown off track by self doubt, fear of rejection, approval seeking, people pleasing, overwhelm… whatever.
The women I work with do life their OWN way… and they’re often misunderstood… which tends to trigger a lot of people… which tends to trigger them.
My absolutely FAVOURITE women to work with are self proclaimed Queens, divorcees, single mamas, alternative educators, super ambitious retirees, coaches, speakers and authors who have ideas and views that challenge ‘the norm’, women who are creating / have created / want to create their OWN original signature systems and methodologies and network marketers – basically, the women who are living outside of what most people consider ‘normal’.
This challenge is completely unique. Unless you’ve done one of my challenges in the past, you haven’t done a visibility challenge like this before.
These 10 days will transform the way you see and speak to yourself, to others AND to the triggers that are 100% inevitable when you live a fully expressed life instead of simply following the herd.
It will enable you to know and express who you TRULY are without hiding any parts of you.
It will give you the courage to evolve in public, to shine your light like freaking supernova, to attract the people, opportunities and experiences you actually want (instead of the ones you don’t want) and to move through and beyond ALL of life’s ups and downs with ease (in fact it will turn you into the kind of woman who transmutes challenges, triggers and fear into transformational teachings… into growth… into abundance… into LOVE).
THE MOST IMPORTANT CONVERSATION YOU HAVE EACH DAY IS THE ONE THAT’S GOING ON INSIDE YOUR HEAD.
That conversation, although rarely in our awareness, is what drives every single decision we make to let the world see who we REALLY are or to filter and edit ourselves in the hope that we won’t offend anyone instead.
As women especially, we tend to have a whole bunch of stories running inside us that cause us to come from a place of shame, suppression and silencing our truest expression instead of OWNING our power as the divine badass creatrixes of our lives.
Stories like “I’m not enough” or “I’m too much.”
Picture this. You’re sat on your meditation cushion after diving deep and a message has dropped in that you KNOW needs to be shared with other women.
The thing is, it’s a little confronting and outside of the box so you tweak it a little bit to make it less offensive.
And you put it out there.
5 minutes goes by…
“They think you’ve lost your mind!” the Inner Critic says…
“Look! They’ve seen your video. They’re just ignoring you!”
You try to push your fears aside and wait a bit longer, telling yourself people must just be busy…
“Who are you kidding? People don’t want to hear this stuff! Get a grip!” says the Inner Critic.
At which point you eat the entire packet of chocolate biscuits and get back to doing something ‘more realistic’ instead. Like hiding. Like NOT expressing yourself fully. Like being vanilla when you’re really wasabi.
You take a step away from the impact (and frankly the income) you are here to create instead of taking a step closer!
And because of the way your mind works, the more you do this the harder it feels to let people see you!
But it doesn’t have to work like this and I’m here to show you a different way.
Because… life is happening NOW.
None of us knows how long we have.
And seeing people die with their music / message / magic still inside them tears me apart.
You and I both know that it’s time… and that actually that it’s your DUTY to share this thing… even if people will look at you like you’re mad… What if you didn’t care? What if you could become immune to the triggers? What if they could actually make your message even more powerful?
WHAT DIFFERENCE WOULD IT MAKE IF THE LOUDEST VOICE IN YOUR HEAD WAS ALWAYS A LOVING AND EMPOWERING ONE INSTEAD OF A BITCHY BULLY? I’LL TELL YOU! IT WOULD MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE! WHAT IF YOUR DEFAULT WAY OF BEING IN THE WORLD WAS ONE WHERE YOU MOVED TOWARDS WHAT YOU WANT INSTEAD OF AWAY FROM IT?
What if we could arrange things so that cheekly little fear mongerer in your head stopped squawking in your ear all the time and in their place a loving, compassionate and encouraging voice that believed in you 100% and constantly reminded you of of your power to create miracles out of mud was sat on your shoulder, whispering in your ear instead?
What if that was the voice that spoke to you right before you made a key decision… or a video to make / email to send / presentation to give?
What if the voice of LOVE was the voice that was there in the background, holding you and supporting you and reminding you constantly that YES you can do this and YES you are enough?
This practice is all about changing the default way you see, speak to and treat yourself because if you believe deeply in who you are and what you’re here to do you’ll show up in a way that reflects that, you’ll be SEEN in a way that reflects that and your life will reflect your power.
It’s always interesting writing these ‘About Me’ sections and I’ve sat here for a little while now trying to figure out what you need to know about me.
Sure – I can tell you all the professional stuff – that I’ve coached everyone from Brit Award winning vocalists, tv personalities and west end performers to incredible female entrepreneurs and top network marketers and that I’ve been behind many 6 figure and £million launches (see what I did there?)
But when I tune into my heart – here’s what I really want you to know about me…
I KNOW what it feels like to ‘not fit in’.
I’m half filipino and half english so never felt like I totally fit in with either side of my family. I was the ‘posh english princess’ to my family in the Philippines and the ‘brown girl in the ring’ to my Grandpa.
When people used to ask me what I wanted to be when I grew up I’d say “Not normal.”
I’ve built a thriving 6 figure coaching practice around visibility AND I am also a passionate network marketer which I’m constantly told “devalues me” and “ruins my reputation” (good job I believe in what I’m doing so much huh!)
Virtually nothing about my life is ‘mainstream’ or ‘textbook’.
I don’t vaccinate my children because… toxins and natural immunity.
They are not in mainsteam education because I don’t see the point in preparing them for jobs and industries that are unlikely to exist by the time they leave school.
I’m a nomad. I LOVE travelling, experiencing new places and energies and learning about other cultures.
Since last year I’ve been a single mum which has added an additional ‘flavour’ to my life… now even more than ever I have ZERO availability for anything that doesn’t genuinely bring value into my life and I have ZERO time for stuff that takes longer than it needs to in order to produce results.
I see the world very differently to the rest of my family.
I believe in magic. In fact, I LIVE it.
I wear giant feather earrings, Converse and teeshirts with loud messages on them.
Basically… I do things my own way.
Everywhere I go I get side-eye and raised eyebrows and I’ve come to see it as a badge of honour.
I believe the reason that women like us get side-eye is because our POWER IS SHOWING.
And I LOVE surrounding myself with other women who are walking their own path!
During the process of metamorphosis, inside the chrysalis, the caterpillar breaks down into a kind of ‘caterpillar soup’.
All the cells that used to make up that caterpillar go into a state of panic because it looks like it’s the end of the world.
But in amongst that chaos the imaginal cells come online.
They are identical to to the old paradigm caterpillar cells in every way APART FROM ONE.
They see things differently.
They don’t see the break down of the caterpillar as the end of the world. They hold a vision called ‘the butterfly’.
The show up and hold their vision even though the caterpillar cells don’t recognise the butterfly vision as valid.
They keep on coming back time after time even though the caterpillar cells snuff them out over and over again.
And eventually they begin to cluster together… and when they do that they become too powerful for the old paradigm cells to snuff out anymore.
And then the butterfly emerges from the chrysalis.
I’m here to create clusters of women.
Firstly I’m here to create my own cluster of ‘side eye sisters’ so I can use my gifts to help them attract their own clusters of women and in doing so become too strong for the resistance to snuff out.
We are birthing a new paradigm ladies and there are going to be things that trigger us. But if we stick together, keep on showing up and gathering others who see the same vision around us, pretty soon, our very own ‘butterfly’ will emerge!
THIS ONE PRACTICE WILL IMPACT EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE
IN A POSITIVE WAY – FACT.
This practice works a lot like a mantra practice. You will be repeating a very simple process every day for 10 days and that process will rewire the default way you see and speak to yourself which will change EVERYTHING
By the end of the 10 days you will:
- Know who you REALLY are.
- Be waaaay more confident about making videos and getting visible (dare I say it you may even ENJOY being on camera – yes really).
- Feel way more confident about talking to people about what you do / your own unique brand of magic.
- See and speak to yourself in a more powerful way.
- See and speak to others in a more powerful way (online, offline and all the time).
- See and speak to RESISTANCE in a more powerful way.
- Have proof that you ROCK at being consistent (regardless of how many times you’ve started and stopped things in the past).
- Have created a TONNE of forward momentum.
- Your energy will be OPEN (which really helps when it comes to receiving what you want).
- Have made a lot of new friends.
You will be showing up on a whole new level that’s MAGNETIC to the people, opportunities and experiences you want to call into your life!
PLUS … GETTING COMFORTABLE ON VIDEO WILL BUILD YOUR BUSINESS 49% FASTER!
Did you know that nearly half of the entire population of the earth is online? THAT’S 3.7 BILLION PEOPLE!!
And 2 billion of them use Facebook alone and that is seriously good news!
Well, I’m going to guess that if you’re reading this page YOU are also on social media. That’s probably how you heard about me in the first place …. and… if you are hanging out in the same place as so many people all you need is a way to attract just a teeny tiny weeny little percentage of those people into your biz on a weekly basis!
And one of the most effective ways to do that that I know of is VIDEO (which just so happens to be something you’re going to get really comfortable with during this practice)!
Here’s why video rocks!
- Video accounts for 74% of all online traffic. (KPCB) That’s a LOT of traffic!
- 55% of people watch online videos EVERY day! (MWP)
- And my personal favourite – People who use video to grow their business grow them 49% faster than those who don’t. (VidYard)
Hands up if you would like to grow your biz 49% faster!
Look… NOTHING is ever going to replace being face to face with a person or with a group of people, but online video is an amaaaaazing tool that will help you get more people interested in what you do!
I know this is probably nothing new to you because, unless you’ve been living under a rock, you already know how powerful video is… but if you’re not using it consistently right now OR if you’re coming across all funky / editing yourself in your videos due to the fear of what others might think or whatever – this will be a great added bonus of the 10 day practice!
If you take part in the optional daily videos you’ll leave able to use video to build your biz 49% faster!
If you are ready to anchor in a more empowering way of seeing, speaking to yourself so you can get visible without feeling all sorts of funky energy and attract the people, experiences and opportunities you want (instead of the ones you don’t want) register now!
We begin on MONDAY 1ST OCTOBER and space is limited.
© MICHELLE HOLMES 2018